Comments for Feeling Freedom http://ljwrites.wordpress.com Some thoughts on changes... Sat, 28 Jun 2008 14:25:41 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Adultery, non-monogamy and polyamory by Jody Franken http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2007/11/15/adultery-non-monogamy-and-polyamory/#comment-182 Jody Franken Sat, 28 Jun 2008 14:25:41 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2007/11/15/adultery-non-monogamy-and-polyamory/#comment-182 I have been happily married for nearly a decade. I have a 7 year old son that I love, and been doing well at work and at life in general. About 2 years ago, I hired a young apprentice. He was a kid when he first showed up. About a year ago, my husband was away for over a month, and things between me and my apprentice unexpectedly heated up. I suppose I missed my spouse, and so I realised how attracted I was to my assistant. We went out for a movie, and I felt like a teenager all over again. It was and is the most amazing feeling that I cannot even describe. Just thinking about my new partner makes every fiber of my being go into hyperspace. Suffice to say that though I am attracted to my husband, he just doesnt excite me in the way that my work partner does. Is there something wrong with me? I have major guilt pangs since I have a child, and do not want to hurt my spouse, who I know will be shattered if they learn of this relationship. But the love I feel for my new partner is something which I can't seem to give up, even though I tried. What should I do? I have been happily married for nearly a decade. I have a 7 year old son that I love, and been doing well at work and at life in general.

About 2 years ago, I hired a young apprentice. He was a kid when he first showed up. About a year ago, my husband was away for over a month, and things between me and my apprentice unexpectedly heated up.

I suppose I missed my spouse, and so I realised how attracted I was to my assistant. We went out for a movie, and I felt like a teenager all over again.

It was and is the most amazing feeling that I cannot even describe. Just thinking about my new partner makes every fiber of my being go into hyperspace.

Suffice to say that though I am attracted to my husband, he just doesnt excite me in the way that my work partner does.

Is there something wrong with me? I have major guilt pangs since I have a child, and do not want to hurt my spouse, who I know will be shattered if they learn of this relationship.

But the love I feel for my new partner is something which I can’t seem to give up, even though I tried.

What should I do?

]]> Comment on Chasing by Will http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/03/10/chasing/#comment-131 Will Wed, 12 Mar 2008 01:44:41 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/03/10/chasing/#comment-131 Well. You certainly know how to hold a person in suspended animation. Well. You certainly know how to hold a person in suspended animation.

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]]> Comment on Brain chatter by Ink http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/02/23/brain-chatter/#comment-106 Ink Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:59:38 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/?p=124#comment-106 Still the same. Still the same.

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]]> Comment on The chase? by laurenjane http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/02/01/the-chase/#comment-81 laurenjane Sat, 02 Feb 2008 22:12:39 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/?p=93#comment-81 I agree. In fact, I'm being not-so-good as we speak. Although I have found a way to do it and keep my panties on. Woohoo! I agree. In fact, I’m being not-so-good as we speak. Although I have found a way to do it and keep my panties on. Woohoo!

]]> Comment on The chase? by Ornella http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/02/01/the-chase/#comment-80 Ornella Sat, 02 Feb 2008 21:30:55 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/?p=93#comment-80 I find not shaving helps her your pants on. Although, when in the throes of passion, you may just think 'pah, whats a little body hair?'! Anyway, I vote for being bad. Yoga and clean living are for when you're too old to party and too young to retire. I find not shaving helps her your pants on. Although, when in the throes of passion, you may just think ‘pah, whats a little body hair?’! Anyway, I vote for being bad. Yoga and clean living are for when you’re too old to party and too young to retire.

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]]> Comment on A return… by Searcher12 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/01/05/a-return/#comment-56 Searcher12 Sat, 05 Jan 2008 18:57:41 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2008/01/05/a-return/#comment-56 Thanks for the interesting article. I sometimes think I have forgotten what it was like in the pre-job days. I think your daughter will enjoy reading about her Mom. I'm exploring the other side of the job hunt, looking for that new position and all the excitment of a new location, company and co-workers. I'm posting at thejobtrap.blogspot.com. Best wishes and stay safe...... Thanks for the interesting article. I sometimes think I have forgotten what it was like in the pre-job days. I think your daughter will enjoy reading about her Mom. I’m exploring the other side of the job hunt, looking for that new position and all the excitment of a new location, company and co-workers. I’m posting at thejobtrap.blogspot.com.

Best wishes and stay safe……

]]> Comment on Commitment, what? by Robin http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2007/12/28/commitment-what/#comment-55 Robin Sat, 05 Jan 2008 09:21:12 +0000 http://ljwrites.wordpress.com/2007/12/28/commitment-what/#comment-55 Write some more!! I'm getting withdrawal symptoms. Write some more!! I’m getting withdrawal symptoms.

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